Episode 142: Good Business Is a Choice, featuring Selina, Benita, & Jennifer

This episode features two different conversations with small businesses that are trying to scale their business (meaning: grow it) without sacrificing their values. First, we’ll chat with Jennifer and Benita, two of the founders of Style Crush, an online secondhand/resale platform that is trying to do things in a better way. Then Selina Sanders returns (yay) to tell us about what she has been doing to scale her namesake brand, how she keeps herself motivated and healthy, and all about her new Domestika class! Also: a mini lesson on “runway” and how it applies to both large and small businesses.

Go follow Style Crush on IG: @joinstylecrush
Use Selina’s link to take her Domestika class!
Follow @smallbizbigpic, Amanda’s small business class series.

Other reading:
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Why rich people tend to think they deserve their money (study involving Monopoly)

Episode Transcript!



  • Welcome to Clotheshorse, the podcast that just did their first IRL Clotheshorse-related event, appearing on a panel at Slow Fashion Fest here in Austin!

    I’m your host, Amanda and this is episode 142. As you’re probably tired of hearing me say, I believe that small business is the future. And doing what I can as a member of the slow fashion community to elevate these small businesses, give them a moment on my platform to meet other members of the community, is very important to me! For November and December, I will be sharing audio essays from small businesses in our community in each episode. And I will be doing all I can to share and shine a spotlight on other small businesses I love on Instagram. If you want to participate in any of this, you’ll find all the essential info in the show notes and on instagram. I want to say that at this point, I have received about half a dozen audio essays and I still need more. The deadline is November 1. And in terms of IG lives, honestly so few people have signed up that I may not be able to pull it off. We’ll see!

    To get us ready for two months of meeting small businesses and hearing their stories, today’s episode features two different conversations with small businesses that are trying to scale their business (meaning: grow it) without sacrificing their values. And that might sound like an easy problem to solve, but it’s actually a big huge riddle! That doesn’t mean it is impossible, but it does mean doing things in new, unprecedented ways. And diversifying how, what, and where you sell stuff/ideas/etc. Bad business is a choice. And so is good business. It’s just that we don’t see a lot of good business happening on a large scale, so doing things the ethical way is still pretty groundbreaking and disruptive in 2022.

    First we’ll chat with Jennifer and Benita, two of the founders of Style Crush, an online secondhand/resale platform that is trying to do things in a better way: ensuring that the people who sell on their platform actually make some money. One of their big issues (and I share their frustration) with Poshmark, Depop, etc is that while the companies themselves are seeing massive revenue, the sellers make very little because these platforms take such a big cut. They are going to explain how and why they are working to do things differently.

    In the second conversation, long time Clotheshorse friend and recurring guest, Selina Sanders, is back to tell us about what she has been doing to scale her namesake brand, how she keeps herself motivated and healthy, and to talk to us about her new Domestika class.

    This episode is a little on the long side. But guess what? There will not be a new episode next week because I will be camping with my in-laws at the beach, so you have two whole weeks to get through this one. Maybe you can just split it in half?

    Let’s get started with Jennifer and Benita. So you have all met Jennifer in the past, in episode 52…which to be fair, was a long time ago! And Style Crush has grown and evolved a lot since then. According to their website, “We believe profits from a marketplace should flow back to its community. By making StyleCrush a member-owned cooperative, we’re building that principle into the foundation of our organization

    We’ll never have outside investors pressuring us to do things that are better for the bottom line than our users.⁠

    It may mean we have to grow a little slower than our VC backed competition, but we think that’s actually a benefit. Prioritizing growth over functionality is what created this mess to begin with. ⁠”

    Obviously I love all of this, especially after all of the research I did into Etsy and eBay for the Etsy-sodes. The moral of that series: these platforms make it nearly impossible for their sellers to make a living, yet they sell their platforms as a way for…you guessed it…their sellers to make a living. And Poshmark definitely markets that idea to their sellers. Benita and Jennifer are going to tell us about how and why they want Style Crush to be a gamechanger in the resale community. Let’s go!



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  • Thank you so much to Benita and Jennifer for spending some time with me! I hope by now you are obsessed with getting involved with Style Crush! You can sign up at stylecrush.co and give them a follow on instagram @joinstylecrush. I am so excited about what they are doing and I want this to be successful because it will be a game changer for the entire resale industry.

    Okay…now let’s shift gears to my conversation with Selina!

    In our conversation, Selina touches on something that I explained way back in the Etsy-sodes, the idea of “runway.”

    Runway is a great startup business term, and if you’re a small business owner, you’re probably thinking about your runway even if you don’t know what that term means. Runway refers to how many months your business can keep operating before it’s out of money….basically, how long can you stay in business with your current sales and expenses without either going into debt or taking on more investment. When a big business (like a massive startup, think WeWork, Etsy, some of my past employers) is still in the runway mode, it means they aren’t making any actual profit when they deduct the cost of what they are selling and their overhead expenses from the money they are bringing in from sales. When you’re a small business, you’re kinda always in the runway mode, and that’s okay, as long a you re planning things the right way.. Any profit that you do make just adds a few more inches or feet to that runway (in reality days, weeks or months)…with the right balance, your runway begins to feel infinite because it’s constantly extending itself. That’s a profitable, healthy business! And if you aren’t making any profit, well, the runway just keeps getting shorter.

    And to be fair here…your runway–even as an older, more established business–can really reveal the values and priorities of your business. Like if your runway is massively long, you could keep going as-is for years and years…it probably means a few things: either you’re marking up your product a ton (and it’s possibly low quality or kinda scammy) AND/OR you aren’t paying people enough or hiring enough people. Your staff is underpaid and doing the jobs of several people. Or it’s just you doing all the work…and it’s time for you to get yourself some help! Because you’re going to burn yourself out.

    If your business has been around for a long time and your runway is always *this close* to running out…well, you’re probably spending TOO MUCH money, either on inventory that isn’t selling, on marketing that’s not bringing a lot of repeat customers, or on staffing–your team is too big…a rarity in 2022, but definitely a common issue in early startup culture.

    Nasty Gal ultimately ran out of runway and filed for bankruptcy due to several of these issues:

    The company was spending wayyyyyy too much on customer acquisition. Spending more than $100 to acquire each new customer, but that customer only shopped the site once, spent about $50, and then never came back again. Now how that applies to you as a small business: you might be spending too much money on IG ads, giving away too much swag, too many giveaways on IG, or giving a lot of stuff to influencers.

    Carrying too much inventory and never cleaning it out, revisiting the inventory strategy. When I started working there some of my categories had enough inventory in stock, that it would take more than a year to sell out of it, even if we never added anything new. I always tell clients “the product you sell is money that had a curse put on it that turned it into stuff. Your goal is to turn that stuff back into money to feed your business.” You can’t hold on to stuff for a long time, unless your plan is to do the long game of waiting for it to become vintage. Take markdowns and move on!

    Spending too much money on things that weren’t making an impact on the business from a revenue perspective, but were definitely shortening that runway: a big fancy office in DTLA filled with very expensive furniture, a huge store in Santa Monica that wasn’t really doing well, massive sample and travel budgets for design…that kind of thing.

    As a small business owner, your runway is not only financial, but also physical, mental, and emotional. I can honestly say that there have been times where I have just thrown my hands in the air and said, “I have no more ideas or words to give to Clotheshorse right now.” And that usually means I need some rest and time off, maybe to actually do something fun for a change!

    Part of being a small business owner is maintaining the emotional runway, just as much the financial runway. Getting rest, taking breaks, realizing that you can’t do everything yourself, and working paid help into your financial plan. Ultimately extending this runway allows your business to grow, be efficient, gain loyal customers, and keep you inspired/motivated!

    If you’re feeling that the emotional/creative runway is just a little short for you, it’s time to start giving yourself a break NOW before your business feels the negative impact of a broken owner/maker/seller/human!

    Well, without further ado, let’s jump into my conversation with Selina!



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  • About a year ago, I made the mistake of reading a conversation about Clotheshorse on Reddit, and it’s something I will never do again. One of the complaints about this podcast (other than it being super depressing) was that I left the nice things people said about the show in their voice messages, rather than cutting them. And so for the past year, I’ve been cutting that stuff out…for some reason that even I don’t understand, especially as I explain this out loud. But I left in that last part in my conversation with Selina because you know what? It means a lot to me that she has seen the evolution, because she and I have been on this journey since the beginning, growing alongside one another. Extending Clotheshorse beyond just clothes, just fast fashion, all of that has been part of a larger mission to show everyone who listens that we can as individuals make an impact, that a lot of our consumption habits stem from not feeling as though we can be ourselves, and that so many industries exploit that insecurity as much as they exploit humans and the planet. Each time one of us has that AHA moment of really feeling and knowing that who we are is just perfect…fast fashion loses another devoted customer. Each time we proudly show our true inner selves to others, we start someone else on their own journey to achieving that for themselves. And that is how we disrupt the status quo of buying shit to make ourselves feel better, cooler, prettier, wealthier, smarter…whatever it is we are trying to do when we shop. Changing is work, and progress isn’t linear…but wow, to look back and see how you’ve grown and how much better you feel…that’s better than the best article of clothing I’ve ever owned!

    It was so great to catch up with Selina, who you can find on instagram as @selina_sanders. The linktree in her profile includes both the link to her online store and the link to her Domestika class. As she suggested, you should use THAT link to sign up for class because she gets paid a bigger share.

    I am so excited to see Selina at West Coast Craft in San Francisco, November 19 & 20. I hope I will see some of you there, too!

    Okay, well that’s all for this episode everyone! I am going to go finish my laundry and do all kinds of boring housework in preparation for my in-laws arrival this week.

    Thanks for listening to this episode of Clotheshorse.

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  • It’s not an ad...it’s your story and feelings about owning a small business, including:
    What motivated you to start a small business?
    Why it’s important to you, what you do, and why you do it.
    What have you learned?
    Include information about your business and where listeners can find you.

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Clotheshorse is brought to you with support from the following sustainable brands:

Thumbprint is Detroit’s only fair trade marketplace, located in the historic Eastern Market. Our small business specializes in products handmade by empowered women in South Africa making a living wage creating things they love like hand painted candles and ceramics! We also carry a curated assortment of sustainable/natural locally made goods. Thumbprint is a great gift destination for both the special people in your life and for yourself! Browse our online store at thumbprintdetroit.com and find us on instagram @thumbprintdetroit.


Gentle Vibes: We are purveyors of polyester and psychedelic relics! We encourage experimentation and play not only in your wardrobe, but in your home, too. We have thousands of killer vintage pieces ready for their next adventure!


Picnicwear: a slow fashion brand, ethically made by hand from vintage and deadstock materials – most notably, vintage towels! Founder, Dani, has worked in the industry as a fashion designer for over 10 years, but started Picnicwear in response to her dissatisfaction with the industry’s shortcomings. Picnicwear recently moved to rural North Carolina where all their clothing and accessories are now designed and cut, but the majority of their sewing is done by skilled garment workers in NYC. Their customers take comfort in knowing that all their sewists are paid well above NYC minimum wage. Picnicwear offers minimal waste and maximum authenticity: Future Vintage over future garbage.

Shift Clothing, out of beautiful Astoria, Oregon, with a focus on natural fibers, simple hardworking designs, and putting fat people first. Discover more at shiftwheeler.com


High Energy Vintage is a fun and funky vintage shop located in Somerville, MA, just a few minutes away from downtown Boston. They offer a highly curated selection of bright and colorful clothing and accessories from the 1940s-1990s for people of all genders. Husband-and-wife duo Wiley & Jessamy handpick each piece for quality and style, with a focus on pieces that transcend trends and will find a home in your closet for many years to come! In addition to clothing, the shop also features a large selection of vintage vinyl and old school video games. Find them on instagram @ highenergyvintage, online at highenergyvintage.com, and at markets in and around Boston.


Blank Cass, or Blanket Coats by Cass, is focused on restoring, renewing, and reviving the history held within vintage and heirloom textiles. By embodying and transferring the love, craft, and energy that is original to each vintage textile into a new garment, I hope we can reteach ourselves to care for and mend what we have and make it last. Blank Cass lives on Instagram @blank_cass and a website will be launched soon at blankcass.com.


St. Evens
is an NYC-based vintage shop that is dedicated to bringing you those special pieces you’ll reach for again and again. More than just a store, St. Evens is dedicated to sharing the stories and history behind the garments. 10% of all sales are donated to a different charitable organization each month. New vintage is released every Thursday at wearStEvens.com, with previews of new pieces and more brought to you on Instagram at @wear_st.evens.


Vagabond Vintage DTLV
is a vintage clothing, accessories & decor reselling business based in Downtown Las Vegas. Not only do we sell in Las Vegas, but we are also located throughout resale markets in San Francisco as well as at a curated boutique called Lux and Ivy located in Indianapolis, Indiana. Jessica, the founder & owner of Vagabond Vintage DTLV, recently opened the first IRL location located in the Arts District of Downtown Las Vegas on August 5th. The shop has a strong emphasis on 60s & 70s garments, single stitch tee shirts & dreamy loungewear. Follow them on instagram, @vagabondvintage.dtlv and keep an eye out for their website coming fall of 2022.

Country Feedback is a mom & pop record shop in Tarboro, North Carolina. They specialize in used rock, country, and soul and offer affordable vintage clothing and housewares. Do you have used records you want to sell? Country Feedback wants to buy them! Find us on Instagram @countryfeedbackvintageandvinyl or head downeast and visit our brick and mortar. All are welcome at this inclusive and family-friendly record shop in the country!

Selina Sanders, a social impact brand that specializes in up-cycled clothing, using only reclaimed, vintage or thrifted materials: from tea towels, linens, blankets and quilts. Sustainably crafted in Los Angeles, each piece is designed to last in one’s closet for generations to come. Maximum Style; Minimal Carbon Footprint.


Salt Hats: purveyors of truly sustainable hats. Hand blocked, sewn and embellished in Detroit, Michigan.

Republica Unicornia Yarns: Hand-Dyed Yarn and notions for the color-obsessed. Made with love and some swearing in fabulous Atlanta, Georgia by Head Yarn Wench Kathleen. Get ready for rainbows with a side of Giving A Damn! Republica Unicornia is all about making your own magic using small-batch, responsibly sourced, hand-dyed yarns and thoughtfully made notions. Slow fashion all the way down and discover the joy of creating your very own beautiful hand knit, crocheted, or woven pieces. Find us on Instagram @republica_unicornia_yarns and at www.republicaunicornia.com.


Located in Whistler, Canada, Velvet Underground is a “velvet jungle” full of vintage and second-hand clothes, plants, a vegan cafe and lots of rad products from other small sustainable businesses. Our mission is to create a brand and community dedicated to promoting self-expression, as well as educating and inspiring a more sustainable and conscious lifestyle both for the people and the planet.

Find us on Instagram @shop_velvetunderground or online at www.shopvelvetunderground.com


Cute Little Ruin
is an online shop dedicated to providing quality vintage and secondhand clothing, vinyl, and home items in a wide range of styles and price points. If it’s ethical and legal, we try to find a new home for it! Vintage style with progressive values. Find us on Instagram at @CuteLittleRuin.

Want to Support Amanda's Work on Clotheshorse?

If you want to share your opinion/additional thoughts on the subjects we cover in each episode, feel free to email, whether it’s a typed out message or an audio recording:  [email protected]

Clotheshorse is brought to you with support from the following sustainable small businesses:

Thumbprint is Detroit’s only fair trade marketplace, located in the historic Eastern Market.  Our small business specializes in products handmade by empowered women in South Africa making a living wage creating things they love like hand painted candles and ceramics! We also carry a curated assortment of  sustainable/natural locally made goods. Thumbprint is a great gift destination for both the special people in your life and for yourself! Browse our online store at thumbprintdetroit.com and find us on instagram @thumbprintdetroit.

Picnicwear:  a slow fashion brand, ethically made by hand from vintage and deadstock materials – most notably, vintage towels! Founder, Dani, has worked in the industry as a fashion designer for over 10 years, but started Picnicwear in response to her dissatisfaction with the industry’s shortcomings. Picnicwear recently moved to rural North Carolina where all their clothing and accessories are now designed and cut, but the majority of their sewing is done by skilled garment workers in NYC. Their customers take comfort in knowing that all their sewists are paid well above NYC minimum wage. Picnicwear offers minimal waste and maximum authenticity: Future Vintage over future garbage.

Shift Clothing, out of beautiful Astoria, Oregon, with a focus on natural fibers, simple hardworking designs, and putting fat people first.  Discover more at shiftwheeler.com

High Energy Vintage is a fun and funky vintage shop located in Somerville, MA, just a few minutes away from downtown Boston. They offer a highly curated selection of bright and colorful clothing and accessories from the 1940s-1990s for people of all genders. Husband-and-wife duo Wiley & Jessamy handpick each piece for quality and style, with a focus on pieces that transcend trends and will find a home in your closet for many years to come! In addition to clothing, the shop also features a large selection of vintage vinyl and old school video games. Find them on instagram @ highenergyvintage, online at highenergyvintage.com, and at markets in and around Boston.

St. Evens is an NYC-based vintage shop that is dedicated to bringing you those special pieces you’ll reach for again and again. More than just a store, St. Evens is dedicated to sharing the stories and history behind the garments. 10% of all sales are donated to a different charitable organization each month.  New vintage is released every Thursday at wearStEvens.com, with previews of new pieces and more brought to you on Instagram at @wear_st.evens.

Deco Denim is a startup based out of San Francisco, selling clothing and accessories that are sustainable, gender fluid, size inclusive and high quality–made to last for years to come. Deco Denim is trying to change the way you think about buying clothes. Founder Sarah Mattes wants to empower people to ask important questions like, “Where was this made? Was this garment made ethically? Is this fabric made of plastic? Can this garment be upcycled and if not, can it be recycled?” Signup at decodenim.com to receive $20 off your first purchase. They promise not to spam you and send out no more than 3 emails a month, with 2 of them surrounding education or a personal note from the Founder. Find them on Instagram as @deco.denim.

The Pewter Thimble Is there a little bit of Italy in your soul? Are you an enthusiast of pre-loved decor and accessories? Bring vintage Italian style — and history — into your space with The Pewter Thimble (@thepewterthimble). We source useful and beautiful things, and mend them where needed. We also find gorgeous illustrations, and make them print-worthy. Tarot cards, tea towels and handpicked treasures, available to you from the comfort of your own home. Responsibly sourced from across Rome, lovingly renewed by fairly paid artists and artisans, with something for every budget. Discover more at thepewterthimble.com

Blank Cass, or Blanket Coats by Cass, is focused on restoring, renewing, and reviving the history held within vintage and heirloom textiles. By embodying and transferring the love, craft, and energy that is original to each vintage textile into a new garment, I hope we can reteach ourselves to care for and mend what we have and make it last. Blank Cass lives on Instagram @blank_cass and a website will be launched soon at blankcass.com.

Gabriela Antonas is a visual artist, an upcycler, and a fashion designer, but Gabriela Antonas is also a feminist micro business with radical ideals. She’s the one woman band, trying to help you understand, why slow fashion is what the earth needs. If you find your self in New Orleans, LA, you may buy her ready-to-wear upcycled garments in person at the store “Slow Down” (2855 Magazine St). Slow Down Nola only sells vintage and slow fashion from local designers. Gabriela’s garments are guaranteed to be in stock in person, but they also have a website so you may support this women owned and run business from wherever you are! If you are interested in Gabriela making a one of a kind garment for you DM her on Instagram at @slowfashiongabriela to book a consultation.

Vagabond Vintage DTLV is a vintage clothing, accessories & decor reselling business based in Downtown Las Vegas. Not only do we sell in Las Vegas, but we are also located throughout resale markets in San Francisco as well as at a curated boutique called Lux and Ivy located in Indianapolis, Indiana. Jessica, the founder & owner of Vagabond Vintage DTLV, recently opened the first IRL location located in the Arts District of Downtown Las Vegas on August 5th. The shop has a strong emphasis on 60s & 70s garments, single stitch tee shirts & dreamy loungewear. Follow them on instagram, @vagabondvintage.dtlv and keep an eye out for their website coming fall of 2022.

Country Feedback is a mom & pop record shop in Tarboro, North Carolina. They specialize in used rock, country, and soul and offer affordable vintage clothing and housewares. Do you have used records you want to sell? Country Feedback wants to buy them! Find us on Instagram @countryfeedbackvintageandvinyl or head downeast and visit our brick and mortar. All are welcome at this inclusive and family-friendly record shop in the country!

Located in Whistler, Canada, Velvet Underground is a “velvet jungle” full of vintage and second-hand clothes, plants, a vegan cafe and lots of rad products from other small sustainable businesses. Our mission is to create a brand and community dedicated to promoting self-expression, as well as educating and inspiring a more sustainable and conscious lifestyle both for the people and the planet. Find us on Instagram @shop_velvetunderground or online at www.shopvelvetunderground.com

Selina Sanders, a social impact brand that specializes in up-cycled clothing, using only reclaimed, vintage or thrifted materials: from tea towels, linens, blankets and quilts.  Sustainably crafted in Los Angeles, each piece is designed to last in one’s closet for generations to come.  Maximum Style; Minimal Carbon Footprint.

Salt Hats:  purveyors of truly sustainable hats. Hand blocked, sewn and embellished in Detroit, Michigan.

Republica Unicornia Yarns: Hand-Dyed Yarn and notions for the color-obsessed. Made with love and some swearing in fabulous Atlanta, Georgia by Head Yarn Wench Kathleen. Get ready for rainbows with a side of Giving A Damn! Republica Unicornia is all about making your own magic using small-batch, responsibly sourced, hand-dyed yarns and thoughtfully made notions. Slow fashion all the way down and discover the joy of creating your very own beautiful hand knit, crocheted, or woven pieces. Find us on Instagram @republica_unicornia_yarns and at www.republicaunicornia.com.

Cute Little Ruin is an online shop dedicated to providing quality vintage and secondhand clothing, vinyl, and home items in a wide range of styles and price points.  If it’s ethical and legal, we try to find a new home for it!  Vintage style with progressive values.  Find us on Instagram at @CuteLittleRuin.